I absolutly agree with your answer! People who say hosexuality is wrong because of religion and choose to hate on people in love are ridiculous! God doesn't judge us, why should we judge each other!
Also, if we believe that God made us, then we are who we are for a reason. Like I said before, we don’t get to choose who we love.
I think it’s pretty unfair to God, Himself, to assume that He would hate and condemn me for loving someone and showing them that love. This is all my opinion, but I think a God that hates one because of love is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard.
Would you give up being gay if you felt like God was asking you to?
It’s an irrelevant question to me… Because the God that I believe in teaches love. It’s His number one… Love one another. So if I am capable of loving a girl with my whole heart, treating her with respect, and raising an entire family in love with her, I would never believe that God would disapprove.
God would want me to be happy, so if I feel uneasy with my sexuality, I would assume it to be something else being wrong, not God.
- just my childhood ones with my family. Pumpkin carving, tree chopping, and ball hockey with my neighborhood bro down the street. I was fortunate enough to have a great childhood and hopefully I can take my best memories and give them to my kids, too.
How have I changed in 3 years:
- oh god, the list is endless. I came out to everyone as gay, I work for a job that pays me extremely well, I had my first love/first loss, and as crappy as this entire last year has been, it’s ending incredibly well - which makes me hopeful that 2012 is going to be phenomenal :)
Worst thing i said to my mother:
- I was angry and called her a bad parent. To this day it is my biggest regret. She prob doesn’t even remember me saying it, but I’ll never forget. It’s the worst lie I’ve ever told.
I’ve been jumping from the tops of buildings. For the thrill of the fall. Ignoring sound advice. And any thought of consequence. My bones are shattered. My pride is shattered. And in the midst of this self-inflicted pain. I can see my beautiful rescue.
Thanks for that, really. I'm copying that and saving it to my iPod notes. It's just that... I don't know. I'm okay with it sometimes, but then it gets hard, because I wish I could be in a relationship, and I wish I hadn't figured it out so early because then I wouldn't be so lonely. Addgjlnvxsf I'm just rambling now. But, I really look up to you, and that answer kind of helped. I hope you are having a great holiday season.
Well I’m always here to talk. Always :)
And honestly - don’t worry about the relationship right now… Focus on you. I know that loneliness sucks and is very tough, but doing things to better yourself such as hobbies and interests of your own… It will build confidence in yourself and allow you to become the person you need to be when the time comes to find the right one :) you have to rebuild and define yourself first. Trust me on that. Do things you enjoy and I promise the right one will find you when the time is right!
What if you don't want to be gay, but you know you are? :3
well, i guess the question is why don’t you want to be? i mean, i understand. it’s really tough for some people… and often times, we’re judged based on ONE irrelevant preference. but you have to look at it this way: it really doesn’t change who you are as a person. no one chose to be straight. you can’t choose who you love… it’s a feeling that knocks you on your ass lol if we all got to pick who we loved, no one would ever get hurt.
but try to understand that you can’t change who you are. i’ve met a lot of people that thought they could… and i don’t think it’s helping anybody positively. i think you should just be you… don’t label it and don’t stress about it… like who you like and if it happens to be the same sex, then be proud that you are capable of loving another and treat whoever it is with unbelievable respect, okay? :)